A Little Bit About Me
Assalaamu'alaykum..
I'm Zaynab. An Indonesian who was born, raised, studied, and living in Indonesia until now.
I was born Muslim alhamdulillaah. I love Islam and proud to be a Muslim. I practice Islam which where Islam is not only my religion but also my way of live.
I’m not coming from a big, well educated, nor rich family. But, my sibling and I hold bachelor degree. I educate myself to be better in every aspect possible from time to time with mostly the guidance of Qur-an, Sunnah, and hikmah.
I have never been married and never date. It's not because I wasn't capable of dating, but it's because I know as a Muslim we are not allowed to do dating unless with our halaal partner (husband/ wife). That’s why I choose not to date unless it's my future husband and it's after marriage. So for the process of getting to know, I only accept friendship.
If you might wondering why I'm still single until today, here is a bit of what had happened on the surface. I was always serious about marriage when I was younger. In 2004 I was even planning to get married in 2010 even though I don’t know who I will get married to because I had no potential husband to be nor a fiance. A boyfriend? Don’t ask me because alhamdulillaah I didn’t and won’t allow myself to have one in my dictionary of life.
Then, 'ala kulli haal my plan of getting married in 2010 was forgotten by me and automatically failed. Well, what should I do if Allaah's plans wasn’t same as mine? Obviously, I would and will only follow Allaah’s plans.
By the time I was getting older and smarter, my concept and understanding about marriage was getting deeper, crowded, and complicated. Though it got me wiser, I can’t help it, it drives me getting more afraid of getting married too.
Until 2019 was approaching and suddenly it was already here and I realize I’m not that young anymore and I’m going to be older and older if I keep not thinking about marriage seriously and not making effort to actively looking for my better half.
I’m a down to earth family oriented person who is optimistic, loving, caring, supportive, cheerful. I love children and I love helping people. I enjoy vegetables gardening, cooking, crafting, learning a good new things, sightseeing, reading, listening and singing a good nasheed, watching a good movie, but not enjoying TV.
I love to keep myself and anybody around me healthy and happy, so I prefer a happy and healthy lifestyle. I would love to be around people who appreciate and support each other sincerely, the one who holds Islam in his heart dearly while trying his best to live in a balance living of both deen and duniya.
I enjoy outdoor activities as much as I enjoy indoor activities as long as it's a safe activity. Actually I love sport too, but not the hard one to do. I prefer typically girl's sport.
I’m not the kind of person who will do something just because my friends or people around me do it. So, it applies for marriage too. I don't like to follow or forced to follow anyone or anything blindly. I know and understand the duty and right of a wife and a husband as well as a duty and right of children and parents.
It's difficult to describe the whole me in this writing, so if you have something to ask about me, you may send your questions through the chats box below.
Thank you for reading my profile 😊😊
I hope Allaah will ease our way to find, meet, and united with our better half. Aamiin tsumma aamiin.
Allaahu yubaarik fiik 😊😊
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What I Am Looking For
I'm here looking for a marriage partner who is a trustworthy, loyal, responsible, kindhearted, independent, and capable person.
He should be a man who is practicing Islam in his daily basis. He should be at least perform saalah five times a day, fasting Ramadhaan, zakah, and keep halaal and healthy lifestyle.
I hope he isn’t a smoker and he is someone who always tries his best to follow and abide by Allaah's rules and won't mind to keep trying and improve himself with me continuously from time to time to be a better Muslim together.
I would love for him to be my imam and my best friend who will love, respect, and cherish me wholeheartedly for who I am because in shaa Allaah I will also love, respect, cherish, and obey him wholeheartedly for who he is.
I hope he would regard my parents as his because I will regard his parents as mine.
He should also ready for my shortcomings because I will do the same for him.
For more details, you may ask me through the chatting box below.
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